Will I experience grief & regret after placing my baby?
Choosing adoption is a big, loving decision, but it also comes with a deep sense of loss. It’s normal to feel like a part of you is missing. This loss brings grief, which is a natural response. Grieving is a journey, and it takes time.
Grief is a Journey
Grief isn’t something you can rush through; it’s a process. You’ll have good days and tough ones. Common stages include shock, anger, depression, and acceptance, but these don’t always follow a clear order. It’s okay to take your time.
This is Normal
You might feel like you shouldn’t grieve or that it’s a sign of weakness, but that’s not true. This is a normal process. The mix of emotions and chaos you feel is part of healing.
Grief is Best Shared
During this time, it’s easy to feel alone or like you’re going crazy. Talking to someone can help. At Lifeline, our counselors are here to listen, and to walk alongside you. They’ll help you understand that your feelings are normal and support you through your grief, both during and after your pregnancy. It’s an honor for us to support you and point you to Christ, who understands our sorrows.
If you are considering adoption for you and your child but are overwhelmed with thoughts of fear and grief, Lifeline is here to help. Reach out to one of our Pregnancy Counselors to talk through questions, concerns, and desires. Although we, as Pregnancy Counselors, talk through these things many times daily, we understand that this experience is new to you and we meet you right where you are.